I thought I would just give you an update on the problems she has been having sleeping. The sleeping pills seem to be doing the job. We have had two good nights of sleep. Also, it does not seem to be bothering her stomach. Praise God for this as it was putting pressure on the entire situation.
I also got a call from a longtime friend who called to ask me a bunch of questions about what is happening with Jan and my role as caretaker. We are such good friends that he was able to speak very frankly about our situation. One of the things he ask me was, what happens to her if something happens to you? Good question. He suggested that I should get her use to a place by allowing her to stay briefly. Say, let her stay 8 hours, giving her a chance to get more comfortable with the surroundings, and thus reducing her fear and anxiety. I thought that was a good idea both for her and for me. Later, I could allow her to spend the night, and so forth, you probably get the idea. This sounds like a practical way to get her more prepared.
Don, You have a very wise friend and I totally agree with him. I witnessed this first hand at Oak Hollow and it really helps the person to adjust more quickly to the new surroundings, plus it gives you a much needed break. I know you are leaning on God's guidance in this situation with Jan, and we all know that God is in control! May God bless you both!
ReplyDeletePraying for you,
Beverly Lavender
Don,
ReplyDeleteYou both are still in our thoughts and prayers. I think you have an angel who you can count on to give you good advise. I would use them as often as needed. Love, Linda and Roy
Glad that you both are getting the rest you both need...and so glad your friend gave you such great advice. Take care...and just remember we are praying for you both! Blessings, Linda L.
ReplyDeleteDon,
ReplyDeleteI am always anxious to read your updates
& pray for the best in everything for you
& Jan.
Love & Blessings
Mary Beth