Her Junior year, 1965

Her Junior year, 1965
What I took to College.

Saturday, November 20, 2010

Remember things change quickly!

My how things can change. We had a few good nights with the sleeping pills working, but it didn't last. It does cause her to become droggy, but does not keep her asleep. The pill is the generic for Ambient(sp). What has changed is with the time change and the progression of the disease she is now suffering from the sundowner problems. About 7:30 pm, she begins to wander throughout the house, sometimes rapidly, sometimes slowly. As the evening progresses she begins to have hallucinations. She will say things to me like, "I know what your doing", along with a look that could kill. I am generally just watching the TV. I offer to help her get dressed for bed, and to help her take evening pills and all of this gets done with quite a bit of teeth gritting, fist pounding and anger expressed. She has faller on at least two occasions at night, just bruises now. She has been up and down almost every night, sometimes getting into bed to stay for no length of time at all and right back up. This starts at bedtime and will continue most of the night. I do have a gate at her door so she does not wander the house. She will come to the gate, look for me and then back to the Bathroom or her bed. I know it sounds crazy, it is crazy. Last night I just ignored her standing at the gate. During all of this she makes no sense at all, totally out of it. Hard to deal with. I have to make some different decisions soon.

4 comments:

  1. Don
    My heart just aches so for both of you,but
    I especially share your pain.I know 1st hand
    how frustrating this is as I deal with it as a
    care giver.It is so much more difficult for you
    as you have to deal with the anger.You are in
    my prayers always.

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  2. Don,
    It was good to share time with you both last week. Thanks a million for the gift of "The Butterfly Effect" book. I enjoyed reading it and viewing the video. Hope Thanksgiving week goes smoothly as possible. Don

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  3. You continue to be in our prayers....I wonder how much any of the rest of us could do in your situation...I think you are amazing. Linda and Roy

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  4. Praying for you as you make decisions about yours and Jan's lives.....whatever you decide will be the right decision, because knowing you, it will be done with much prayer and thought. Love to you and Jan. Linda L.

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